別太得意忘形

 開心時是應該快樂放鬆，但千萬別得意忘形，真要注意安全！！！

Love is beautiful. Live is beautiful.

So far the journey is still pretty lovely, and happy.

Lots of potential...lots of humble....lots of thankful.

學習

 曾幾何時, 總以為自己緃不是最厲害, 也總不是范范之輩。

但過去5年, 遇上抑鬱症後, 開始面對現實, 還是失去了自信心? 

(1) 新舊同事們的出色

(2) 移英的親戚、朋友的家庭條件很不差

也會發現, 自己也40了, 下一個來臨的便是50 半百之齡!

還是謙虛點吧! 

God has its own time

• Inspiration and quotes by Nick Vujicic

Nick Vujicic Quotes (Author of Life Without Limits) (goodreads.com)

• You have to understand that sometimes it is impossible to receive the answers you’re looking for right away. There are no short and easy paths to a long and lasting happiness.

• The storm - You are not alone. It gonna be ok. WE GONNA BE OK. 

• You may not be able to see a path right now, but that doesn't mean it's not there.
• The challenges in our lives are there to STRENGTHEN our CONVICTIONS. They are NOT there to run us over

• Choices
• Get up 
• 1 step at a time, just taking it a day at a time
• Fail? Just try again, and again, and again.
• It matters HOW you are going to FINISH. Let's finish strong.

• The greatest purpose - Look within, Look around.
• Follow your HEART I: Love YOURSELF just the way you are
• No need to be scared / anxious of how other people look at you
• The place between your comfort zone and your dream is where life takes place. It's the high-anxiety zone, but it's also where you discover who you are
• Learn to be peace with yourself, have hope and love.
• You are beautiful just the way you are

• Follow you HEART II:  Just love ALL people 
• because there is freedom and power in loving people 
• Hugging and Tears
• Forgive yourself and others
• But there is one thing better than going to heaven and that is to encourage at least one other person to go with me

• FAITH: ... Full Assurance In The Heart.
• You can't even stand without risking to fall

• God's love is so real that He created you to prove it. 
• We come together as a family of God, hand in hand. And then together coming and standing upon the promises of God, knowing that no matter who you are, no matter what you're going through, that God knows it, He is with you, He is going to pull you through.
• Don't put your life on hold so that you can dwell on the unfairness of past hurts.
• For every disability you have, you are blessed with more than enough abilities to overcome your challenges.
• Have you ever felt trapped in circumstances, then discovered that the only trap was your own lack of vision, lack of courage, or failure to see that you had better options?
• Pain is Pain. Broken is Broken. FEAR is the Biggest Disability of all. And will PARALYZE you More Than Being in a Wheelchair.
• .. to keep moving up ... , you have to abandon the security of that ledge and reach for another hold. Letting go of that sense of security.. is the challenge. ... think of yourself as climbing a ladder. To move to the next rung, you must give up your grip and reach for the next one.
• I never met a bitter person who was thankful. Or a thankful person who was bitter.

You and I cannot see what God has in store for us. That is why you should never believe that your worst fears are your fate or that when you are down, you will never rise again. You must have faith in yourself, in your purpose, and in God’s plan for your life. Then you must put fears and insecurities aside and trust that you will find your way. You may not have a clue of what lies ahead, but it’s better to act on life than simply let life act on you. If you have faith, you don’t need proof—you live it. You don’t need to have all the right answers, just the right questions. No one knows what the future holds. Most of the time, God’s plan is beyond our grasp and often beyond even the reach of our imaginations. As a ten-year-old boy, I never would have believed that within the next ten years, God would send me to travel the world to speak to millions of people, inspiring them and leading them to Jesus Christ. Nor could I ever have known that the love of my family would one day be matched and even surpassed by the love of the intelligent, spiritual, fearless, and beautiful young woman who recently became my wife. That boy who despaired at the thought of his future is at peace today as a man. I know who I am, and I take one step at a time, knowing God is on my side. My life is overflowing with purpose and love. Are my days free of worry? Is every day blessed with sunshine and flowers? No, we all know life doesn’t work that way. But I thank God for each and every moment that He allows me to walk the path He has set out for me. You and I are here for a purpose. I’ve found mine, and you should take my story as an assurance that your path awaits you too.

• Don't give up on God. Don't give up on love. 

見解

 金錢只是副產品(By-Product), 而非目標(Goal)。

未來6個月會否出現翻天覆地的情形? 我們拭目以待吧。

今年被一位騙子騙了, 下次要小心。

幸好, 也遇上不少好人 :)

假如...

假如, 世上有一個大國, 他沒有Facebook、沒有Youtube、沒有Instagram、沒有Google...

然後, 又沒有了賭、只有下跌的股; 不能打機、 也不能努力消費...

還不可以出入境、連網球也打不成...

這個國家可以怎樣？

x x x

《戰爭論》 進攻就是最好的防守。

有些人, 就只有以上一招。

對聖鬥士超過一次的招式便沒有用了。

xx

《孫子兵法-虛實第六》

夫兵形象水，水之行，避高而趨下；兵之勝，避實而擊虛。水因地而制行，兵因敵而制勝。故兵無成勢，無恒形，能因敵變化而取勝者，謂之神。故五行無常勝，四時無常位，日有短長，月有死生。

10 年

 還記得鄭sir 的一個很好的見解:

「柏希是個會直接把感受表現出來的小朋友, 而不像哥哥那種守規距的人。」

這只是個分別, 沒有什麼好壞之分的。

好! 你的"不沉默"反應, 爸爸聽到了, 吃了一個當頭棒喝: 要在懶惰安逸中醒醒做點實事了。

回首10年前一遍文章: 

xxx

改變的出口

或許, 我們也不喜愛改變。

改變會帶來不安、憂慮、煩惱, 什至一點點不適應而懊惱; 但是沒有改變, 又怎會去想想看看試試而重新起動?

有時改變是自願的, 有時是環境為你選擇的; 孤勿論是什麼原因, 不明究竟就讓自己的鈍感把它容下, 是錯是對明天一樣會來, 你, 為什麼那麼在意那一分一秒的失重呢?

突如其來的巨變, 也可以是個意想不到的驚喜, 就讓你我推開那扇門繼續追蹤出口吧。

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K0dR105K9vQ&feature=related

謝安琪 -- 節外生枝

作曲: Kim 蕭金鳳

編曲: 周博賢

填詞: 黃偉文

害怕　十個月後再　沒路徑可回頭害怕　但是我卻未後悔　這是我所尋求

就像某某　情願放低事業去旅遊 半路有　大狀轉做賽艇手

誰和誰做了蠢事　誰和誰亂了主旨平靜處　自願再生枝

 ＊捨平凡　愛動盪　人人其實有個願望　

知回頭　會是岸　仍昂然投入去這巨浪　

我所愛　我不改　千夫所責也不放　

不愛看的不要看　也許我已厭了直航＊

任性　拿掉我任性　會事業有成

無奈我　其實太不習慣　世界太平

無辦法　慢慢老去又美麗又冷靜

情願聽　來撩亂我命運　那個叫聲

誰和誰做了蠢事　誰和誰亂了主旨

還未到　謝幕也不知 

REPEAT＊

既沒有網　在四方　就恨沒勇氣闖闖我這半世　未算趕　何妨迷路看風光